Greta Carter-Willis and her husband Mark live on the edge of Mount Olivet Cemetery in southwest Baltimore.  When you walk into their pretty row home you are greeted by family portraits, a collection of books on African American history, a painting of Coretta Scott King and Martin Luther King Junior, and a reproduction of the “Last Supper” mounted above their dining room table.

The table is carefully set with lovely placemats and napkin rings and looks like it belongs in a home decorating magazine. You wouldn’t believe that this beautiful place was the scene of grisly violence.  Beyond the dining room table and just before you reach the kitchen, lovingly renovated by Mark to expose the beautiful old brick, is the place that Greta’s youngest child, Kevin L. Cooper, was shot and killed.

Greta looks at Jen and me with a kind and knowing smile when we ask her how it happened. She knows that our naivety is a function of our privilege. “They,” and she gestures to the police precinct located half a block from her home, “they think we are all the same. They don’t take the time to know us. They think that all of us in the ghetto are on drugs or uneducated.”

Greta grew up in a close-knit Baltimore community where people and the police knew and trusted one another. “When we needed help, we called the police.”  That is what Greta did the morning of August 12, 2006. Kevin was in crisis.  Eight years earlier, Kevin’s revered older brother died in a car crash at the age of 16.

Kevin’s sister left the house just a few months before the incident to join the Navy. Greta agreed to care for her infant granddaughter while her daughter was deployed. Now Kevin, Greta and her granddaughter were alone in the home, and he was distraught. Frustrated, exhausted and alone, Greta called the police.

Two officers arrived on the scene and, according to Greta, Kevin quickly calmed down. The officer who substantiated Greta’s account left the scene because the call was abated. The other officer remained.

Kevin muttered something under his breath, probably something obnoxious, something an angry teenager would say. She didn’t hear exactly what he mumbled.  The police officer couldn’t hear it either and confronted Kevin, demanding that he “speak up.”  The situation escalated.  Greta called her pastor to ask for help and advice.

Kevin stormed out of the room and the officer pursued him upstairs. Greta says the officer taunted Kevin, teasing him about needing to “be a man.” Kevin walked back downstairs and picked up a plastic dustpan. The officer then sprayed Kevin with mace and shot him. The entire time, Greta held her infant granddaughter in her arms.  The house was surrounded by police within minutes.

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The police ushered Greta out of her home. She recalls yelling for an ambulance and being confused when one arrived and the police officer was put in it.  An officer informed her that she had to go to the police station before she could go to the hospital to see her son.  She listened to the officer, went to the precinct, and doesn’t recall much else. She felt as though she were there for hours and she kept asking about her son.

The one piece of information that she held onto was that they told her that he was going to be arrested for assaulting a police officer. She was confused because she was there and Kevin never touched the officer when she was in the house, but she was relieved that at least he was alive. “They told me he was up and talking and that he would be sent to jail once he got out of the hospital.” Finally, she got a ride to the hospital.

“I knew when I saw their faces,” recalls Greta. Her family and pastor were waiting for her. “I could see them all thinking it: ‘She doesn’t know.  She doesn’t know he’s dead.’” Kevin was shot in the shoulder  and the bullet pierced his heart. He died hours before his mother made it to the hospital.  Greta believes that he died on the floor of their home.

Greta called the police around 9:30 AM that morning. She returned to her home, the scene of the crime, shortly before 4pm. Still in shock, she turned on the television to witness a press conference regarding Kevin’s death. Greta describes the confusion and disbelief as she watched the Baltimore Police Department and the States Attorney’s Office declare the shooting justifiable.

“What if I decided not to call the police that day,” Greta says and the pain from that day is still in her eyes. “I know other people think that. Some even say it. Some accuse me of his death.” Greta is the first to say that she will never know exactly what happened that day. The one truth we all know is that she called the police asking for help and the day ended with her youngest child dead.

She asks us, “I bet you wonder why I stay here?  Why I stay in this house.”  She walks us to a small park that has been named in honor of Kevin, where she holds her annual fundraiser for The Kevin Cooper Foundation and where she wants Jen to photograph her.

“I stay here because I believe that someone will come to ask my forgiveness for Kevin’s unjustified homicide. I doubt it will be the Baltimore City Police Department. But maybe the man who killed him will. He’s been promoted.  He’s a detective now.  But yes, I stay here because I am waiting for that.”

Kevin L. Cooper: August 26, 1991-August 12, 2006

Liz Banach
Written by Liz Banach, Executive Director, Marylanders to Prevent Gun Violence



  • Daniel Webster says:

    My heart breaks for Greta. The BPD should apologize. Police departments and leaders throughout the US are acknowledging the wrongs they have committed and asked for forgiveness. It is an important first step to healing and building trust.

  • Ladd Everitt says:

    Greta, I am so terribly sorry that this happened to you when you were being a loving mother and trying to care for your son. It is inexcusable that law enforcement officers are allowed to kill young men of color in this manner. I dearly hope you one day get the apology you deserve.

  • Konni Shier says:

    Oh, Greta. (((hugs))) You lost 2 precious children. Kevin needed help, not whatever the BPD was dishing out. They betrayed you, and all of Baltimore the day they murdered Kevin. Greta, I will take a kneel for Kevin every chance I get. I will vote for sensible politicians who pass sensible laws. I will call and write for sensible, reasonable law enforcement for Kevin and for all the other people who are murdered instead of being helped. I won’t stop as long as I live, or until the job is done. I pray you find healing and peace with your family and friends.

  • Kate says:

    I recently saw a comment that the police must stop using non compliance (& I’ll add perceived “disrespect”) as a reason for lethal force. I think that is true. I wish there were words that could make this better & bring Kevin back. I know there are not. I ask your forgiveness on behalf of those of us who entered law enforcement thinking we will only help people we will only protect people yet are blind to our privilege and demand at times unearned respect. Forgive us please

  • Mimi Dean says:

    Sending you love & light for healing.

  • Kathleen says:

    Greta, sending loving thoughts your way. This should never have happened.

  • Jodi says:

    Greta, my heart is broken for you. Thank you for sharing your story. I hope your pain is eased by sharing and the outpouring of love you get in return. I hope you find peace and get that apology. Sending you love and strength.

  • Grace says:

    Thank you for your courage in sharing your story, Greta. This should never have happened to you and your family. Police reform is badly needed and I fear we will never get it. But you and your family deserve no less and we must persist in trying. All our love to you.

  • christina wisneski says:

    I stand with you in hopes that we can change this so it may not continue. Thank you for sharing. Together we will change this.

  • Todd says:

    Greta, I’m sorry for your loss. After reading your story, it sounds like you still deserve justice, and your son never deserved to be treated the way he was.

  • Kathy Gulbin says:

    Greta, My heart breaks for your pain. As a white woman, I know well that had I been the one to call the police for help, the result would have been very different from yours. The insane injustice of this–of all of this–fills me with anger and sometimes hopelessness. I will end my days supporting laws that prevent injustice. I know that will not heal your pain, but when it comes, perhaps you will smile a little knowing that Kevin’s death had a purpose.

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